Freedom to Marry is Back! All Your Questions Answered

Jun 26, 2013
By:
Melissa Goodman

Page Media

Marriage for same-sex couples is returning to California. Nearly five years after California voters, through Prop. 8, stripped same-sex couples of their freedom to marry, today the U.S. Supreme Court has restored that very same freedom. In Hollingsworth v. Perry, the Court ruled that opponents of same-sex marriage lacked standing to appeal a decision that struck down Prop. 8. Meanwhile, in the ACLU's case Windsor v. United States the Court struck down part of the Defense of Marriage Act, paving the way for married same-sex couples in California to receive all federal benefits, rights, and responsibilities.

What exactly do these decisions mean for same-sex couples who are either thinking about getting married in California or are already married and living in California?

The American Civil Liberties Union of California – along with Equality California, Lambda Legal, and the National Center for Lesbian Rights – has produced a handy guide that answers many of the practical questions emerging in the wake of the Court's rulings. Our guide, Marriage for Same-Sex Couples in California: Frequently Asked Questions, covers topics including the logistics of marrying in California, protection against discrimination, and whether your marriage will be recognized by the federal government and outside of California.

Download the guide (pdf) or view it online.

Here is a brief glimpse at some of the questions the guide answers:

  • When can same-sex couples start getting married again in California?
  • Will same-sex couples throughout the state be able to marry?
  • What do we have to do to marry in California?
  • Will domestic partnerships in California continue to exist?
  • If my partner and I are from another state and marry in California, will our marriage be valid in our home state?
  • If my partner and I married in another state, will California recognize our marriage?
  • Will the federal government recognize marriages of same-sex couples in California?
  • For same-sex couples in bi-national relationships, will getting married in California permit a non-U.S. citizen to gain legal permanent residence in the U.S.?
  • Can a private business – such as a florist, photographer, or event space – refuse to provide space or a service for me wedding because I am marrying a person of the same sex?
  • Can my employer deny my same-sex spouse the same employment benefits that different-sex spouses receive?

One note: This guide focuses on the questions facing same-sex couples contemplating marriage in California. There are several guides (and more coming!) that explain in more detail the federal changes that will occur in the wake of today's Supreme Court ruling in United States v. Windsor. For more information, check www.aclu.org.

We will be updating the guide as information emerges, so please check back for updates.

Melissa Goodman is an attorney with the ACLU of California.